no mouse or keyboard control from iOS to Catalina host

I've recently updated my Mac to Catalina and updated LogMeIn to 4.1.0.11189

I've checked off every instance I can find of LogMeIn in my privacy settings, but now I can only connect to the Mac with my ipad or phone and see the screen. I cannot control the mouse or keyboard like I could before. 

I've seen some attempts at solutions here with related things, but either that isn't working, or I am missing something. Any ideas?